4 Tips for Dating Responsibly As A Mother…

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4 Ways Of Responsibly Getting Back Into Dating As A Mother Of Children

It is no secret that single parents’ first love is always their children. However while they love their children undeniably, they also wish for a different kind of love; the different kind of love that comes from an adult relationship.

Divorce rates seem to be ever climbing which leaves many parents being single and having to re-enter the world of dating. This doesn’t need to be anything to worry about or get anxious over though and when done responsible can have a lot of fun.

Here are four dating tips for women that allow you to responsibly get back into dating as a mother of children:

Know When You’re Ready To Start Dating

There is no written rule as to when single parents should start again after a break up. The only person who will know when their ready to start dating again is them. They know their current situation better than anyone else. They know how they are feeling more than anyone else too. This doesn’t mean that they shouldn’t speak to friends and family though as this can help them make a decision, but at the end of the day… the decision must be their own.

It can take some single parents months or even years to re-enter the dating world so there is no rush nor should they feel pressurized from others to start dating. Let it come naturally and they will just simply know when they’re ready.

Introducing Children To Dates

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Single parents probably don’t need me to remind them that their children should always be their first priority. The guy they are dating should understand the reasons why he can’t go round to her house for dinner or that she has had to cancel a date because she can’t find a babysitter. If he doesn’t understand the needs of being a single parent then he may not appreciate all that single parents go through and do.

Introducing children to the guy they are dating will depend on a number of different things. Children who are older and possibly teenagers will take it a lot harder than toddlers. If the children haven’t yet healed from the break up then introducing a new date could cause them to react negatively. Single parents should make sure their children are ready for this change. They should also choose wisely as introducing too many dates won’t provide a stable home for children.

How To Balance Dating And Being A Single Parent

For some, dating when being a single parent seems daunting. Trying to balance looking after the children, dealing with a nasty divorce and trying to find new love all sounds a bit too much for some. One of the main things single parents worry about is taking the spotlight away from their children by dating and spending time with someone else. This shouldn’t be a concern though as good communication to reassure children will help them realize that nothing has changed between her and them. To balance dating and being a single parent, communication is important.

How To Meet Someone

Single parents sometimes aren’t sure where to meet someone however it is the same as when they were single before having children. They can meet other singles and even other single parents at the usual hotspots; nightclubs, church, work and local events. They can also ask friends and family if they know any singles and hook them up. There is also online dating where they can meet other singles and single parents but make sure to take a friend along if organizing to meet someone.

It takes a lot for a single mothers to find someone as they are a lot more cautious then they were before as now they have their children to think about what’s best for them too. Men who can’t understand this, may not be the best date to introduce to children. Men who do understand this and take it slow respect and appreciate their situation



Sonya Schwartz’s mission is to give women actionable relationship and dating advice with the aim of positively impacting those aspects of your life.

Her Aspiration was established in December 2015​ with the aim of providing women with actionable tips and information that they can implement on a daily basis to improve their relationships. I was fed up with seeing information and blogs full of information that sounded great in practice, but didn’t really give you all the details you needed to actually put it into practice. And so… Her Aspiration was born.

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